Tuesday, May 29, 2007

What do I do about this girl!

Today has been totally touchy feely day with Miss Spice. I don't know how to handle this girl. She has made me nearly cum in my g-string today I tell ya!

Three meetings in college I have had with this woman and I have been like a num nut. Unable to speak that much. Unable to cope with her stroking me almost all over my body.

Miss Spice says that we are going out this weekend (erm,,think we have heard that before)..I personally think that I will fuck it up completely then. Her words alone is enough "let's get fucked". (cough)..been thinking that for a while there babe.

I've been playing it so far as suggested by the wonderful male advice I have had online but a)what do I do when I am drunk with her and b)am I not becoming a player?..ain't that bad to be a player but I wasn't intending on it!
Arrgh!

10 comments:

Stef said...

I think the only answer is to fuck as much as is humanly possible. ;-)

Happybutterfly said...

lol!I can't fuck her on the first outing. That would be unladylike!

Stef said...

You can't...? Sheesh, being ladylike must suck. ;-)

Trouble said...

Yes it does... So I've been told...

Well, judging from the video, this girl has spent time in front of a mirror... And not knowing what image you present, leaves it a bit open, but I stand by what I said before. She is young, sexy, fairly good looking... And knows it... I'll go out on a limb and say, she probably gets a fair amount of attention... So she's used to that... The only way to impress a chick like this is to NOT give her what she expects.

People who are different drunk than when they are sober are not fully developed yet... If you are worried about that, then work on it... But you don't have time for that now, that's long term...

For now, keep 'playing it' as is... Make it a challenge to yourself to keep cool, let her make the moves, encourage her like baiting a fish and then congratulate yourself if she takes the bait. Always reserve a little for much later, or she will get bored quick, young girls do.
However, the game is to keep the mood going without being Capt. Obvious, good ways of doing this are initiating brief contact, like putting your hand on the small of her back, or whispering something in her ear and 'accidentally' brushing her lobes with your lips.

Also, don't blabber... girls like to talk about themselves, and could care less about you, so keep quiet as much as possible. She will most likely play her little games, a favourite being the mixed signals one... The less you say, the harder it is for her to tell how she is affecting you.

At the end of the day this is just a game, so either you're playing, or you're watching from the sidelines... Your choice...

Happybutterfly said...

Oi Trouble!That was such a male comment! Did u forget that I am female too? Because saying that women like to talk about themselves..well where does that leave me and her because we are both women? Are you saying that I must play it like a man to win?Tut tut bloody tut!Women can win the game too!Even if they are talking about themsekves, although I beg to differ on that point;-) But I hear what you're saying and it's noted in my brain. I ain't gonna play from no sidelines either and for the record, Miss Spice only LOOKS young but she is 27! That ain't young in my book of life...she just damn lucky;-)

Mad Bull said...

27 is young.

Trouble said...

Yes, it is... And HB, you need to stop looking at it as Male/Female behavior, and more as Predator/Prey behavior... My best friend is lesbian, and only got laid occasionally when she lucked out with a drunk chick, until I showed her a few tricks, and now she pulls 'straight' chicks...

I didn't forget you are female, did I say that 'women' like to talk about themselves? I said "girls"...

If you want to take the stance of attributing this to 'playing it like a man to win', that's your prerogative. If it's stupid, and it works... Then it ain't stupid...

Mighty M said...

You don't think perchance, that you're being played with?

Based on that rather bizarre ( dare I say narcissist?) video she created of herself - I think it's a pretty fair bet.

Maybe she just wants to add a bit of girl-on-girl action to her excercise / erotic dance routine.

Hope I'm wrong

Anonymous said...

He who shall not be named says / well, at least, coming home after a week of working and being refused a hello kiss, now after reading your blog at least i know where you are at friday night, after leaving without a word / thanks... partner, that was?

Happybutterfly said...

Even if she does Might M, I don't mind being the other half of the girl on girl action!It's been far too long. Bring on the action is what I say;-) She's been to see me twice at work, all half naked, tits out on glorious display. I ain't complaining;-)